Solidarity and Support: California Wildfires

Dearest Neighbors, Clients, Family, and Friends,

Our thoughts and tears are with everyone impacted by the fires.

We appreciate all those who have reached out to check in on us. The SBD team, our families, and our pets are safe.

In this challenging time, please lean on us should you need anything. We welcome unconventional requests.

We will get through this together.

In solidarity and with love,

Sarah

Related information:

Los Angeles Fire Department Resources (link)

LA County Emergency Information and Resources (link)

California Fire Incidents interactive map (link)

California Disaster Help Center (link)

CA Department of Insurance Wildfire Resources (link)

Resources for SoCal fire victims, evacuees, and first responders (link)

Wildfire Preparedness: Home Hardening, Defensible Space, and CA Native Plantings. (link)

How to Rebuild After a Fire: Finding Opportunities for Improved Health and Happiness (link)

Interior Design for Grief: How our Homes can Help with Healing

Our homes are reflections of who we are and the lives that we have lived. These environments take on a new significance for those of us who are coping with grief through the loss of a loved one, the end of a relationship, or a significant life change as we are surrounded by objects and spaces that retain the memories of a former time. The sudden loss of a home and possessions due to a natural disaster brings a different form of grief as we grapple with restarting and rebuilding. However, redesigning our home can be a powerful and hopeful step that helps us transition into a new stage of life as we process our grief. 

There are many different forms of grief. Bereaving a family member or relationship, the onset of sudden illness, or injury are all significant events that can cause us to grieve our life that was. We all cope with loss in different ways, and the experience of processing grief is often not a linear path. As we move through this difficult time, a place or object may evoke memories that trigger waves of emotion.

While many of us may be familiar with the five stages of grief (Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, and Acceptance), some researchers prefer to conceptualize these as "tasks of mourning" (1) that can help us gain a feeling of control over the destabilization that loss can cause in our life. These Four tasks of mourning include: "Accepting the reality of the loss. Processing the pain of grief. Adjusting to the world without who or what we have lost. Finding an enduring connection with who or what we have lost while continuing to engage in new relationships." (2)

Continuing to live in the home that we once shared with a loved one can, in some cases, feel challenging, as being surrounded by objects and spaces that are filled with memories can trigger or potentially prolong our grief.

For those of us in mourning, reserving spaces and holding on to objects may feel like a way to maintain a bond with the person we have lost. Or, instead, we may have an initial instinct to get rid of everything that reminds us of those who are no longer with us, as the memories triggered by these objects and spaces are too painful. But this is something that we may come to regret once we begin to heal. Alternatively, redesigning our home, letting go of some of these objects, and keeping a selection of meaningful pieces can be a healing step in grieving. It helps us accept the reality of our loss, honor their memory, and create a new path for ourselves.

When we share our home with someone for a long time, the space itself can become flooded with memories. In cases where we would like to stay in the same residence but the constant stream of memories is too painful, a complete remodel can be an empowering step. It allows us to reclaim our home, creating a new space to process our grief and pave a new way forward.

For some of us, staying in the home that we once shared with a loved one may prove too painful to endure. In this case, the process of deciding what to take with us into our new life and what should be left behind can feel overwhelming. We may need guidance on retaining the things we loved about our old life without triggering painful memories.

Inviting family and friends to help sort through these possessions can transform this task into a source of support and connection during a difficult time. Alternatively, enlisting the services of an interior design team can take what may feel like an overwhelming situation and break it into smaller, more manageable tasks.

For those of us experiencing a divorce or break up, the spaces and objects that surround us may contain painful memories of those who have hurt us that continue to cause us pain and slow the process of moving on. For some of us, purging our home of objects belonging to or that remind us of our ex-partner can be a powerful first step in reclaiming the space of our home. Determining what objects share the space of our home with us can feel empowering, making space for objects that have a significant personal meaning to us and bring us joy.

When continuing to live in the same home that we once shared with a loved one, replacing communal items that do not have significant personal meaning, such as dinnerwear, towels, bedding, and artwork, can support our healing and help make the transition into our new life more real, as these new objects do not trigger a flood of memories or a wave of grief.

Objects that existed from that period and still have personal meaning may be rearranged or reimagined within our new home in a way that pleases our personal tastes and allows us to claim ownership over how they make us feel. For instance, a piece of artwork could be given a new prominent place in the home, or a piece of furniture could be reupholstered to better fit our personal style.

For those mourning the end of a relationship, changing the space around us by rearranging or redesigning rooms can change how a space triggers our memories. A home remodel can provide a time for self-focus and self-care, where we can truly evaluate what our personal needs are without compromise, creating a home that is just for us.   Rooms or spaces once inhabited by our ex, such as a home office or reading nook, can be converted into whatever best serves us in our new life, perhaps a home gym, meditation room, or dedicated room for a collection. Moving plants, painting the walls a different color, buying new, or rearranging existing furniture can make a room feel less familiar and transition it from "our" space into "my" space, a place to make new memories.

For those experiencing grief from a sudden or significant change in life, such as illness, injury, or loss of mobility, being surrounded by interiors and objects that remind us of our life before this event can be a painful daily experience that hinders our ability to heal. Incorporating ergonomic design elements can create a highly personalized home that helps support us physically and emotionally through this difficult time. Custom design options that help facilitate accessibility and self-sufficiency reimagine our home to meet our new needs with comfort and support.

Kitchens and bathrooms can be redesigned to accommodate a seated user by incorporating custom sink and counter heights. Creating clear space under the sink ensures an unobstructed approach to the counter and ease of movement throughout the room.

Touchless faucets are easy to operate and have the additional hygiene benefit of a touchless surface. Cabinets can be customized to incorporate drawers with pull-style handles, making them easier to access than doors with knob-style handles, facilitating self-sufficiency and confidence in day-to-day tasks.

Installing a wheelchair-accessible shower with barrier-free entry creates ease of movement throughout the bathroom. Barrier-free showers have the same plane as the adjacent flooring, with no step, curb, or dam that would obstruct entry. Linear floor drains and grading can help maintain a level surface, and including a secondary drain elsewhere in the bathroom allows the entire floor area to be treated as a wet room. The shower should also be large enough to allow space to transfer to a shower chair and for the shower chair to turn around, facilitating freedom of movement.

When such changes may necessitate a home remodel to facilitate greater accessibility, updating our home's aesthetics alongside such changes can create a whole new space that supports our current and future selves. Some say the best way to work through our feelings is to feel them. We may wish to create a sanctuary of comfort and peace within our home to help process our grief. Automated lighting, window coverings, and design features that contain or mask environmental sound can all be customized and remotely controlled from a central system to create the ultimate environment of comfort and well-being with the push of a button.

The sudden loss of a home during a natural disaster leaves individuals and families grappling with immense grief and a profound sense of loss. A home is far more than just walls and a roof; it's a sanctuary woven with memories and an embodiment of our identity. When this is suddenly lost, the path to physical and emotional rebuilding can feel insurmountable, leaving us feeling displaced, powerless, and uncertain of the way forward.

In the aftermath of a natural disaster, we may suddenly find ourselves in a new home, starting from the beginning. As daunting as this may sound, shaping our new environment can become a powerful tool for healing and recovery. Creating a home that fosters emotional support and comfort can allow one to regain a feeling of control. Personalizing a new space with meaningful objects, our favorite colors and other elements that resonate with us is not just a design choice but a powerful act of self-assertion. This can help reclaim our sense of self and create a new home filled with hope and resilience.

Thoughtful design can help restore our sense of safety. Trauma-informed design considers our emotional and sensory needs to create restorative home environments that can help support recovery from grief and trauma. Our sensory experience of sound, color, light, and touch within a space can significantly impact our mental and emotional health. Enlisting the services of an experienced interior design team can provide support and clarity throughout this process, ensuring that every aspect of our home is designed with our well-being in mind.

Incorporating salvaged items such as ceramic objects, metal cookware, or decorative porcelain dishes and objects into a new space can help maintain a connection to the past. These objects can serve as tangible reminders of happy memories while providing a sense of continuity and resilience.

The loss of a loved one, the end of a relationship, or a sudden life change can profoundly affect how we experience our environment, as our homes are full of memories that have the potential to trigger painful waves of grief. Practicing self-care and mindfulness can support our mental and emotional well-being as we move through the process of healing. Remodeling our home to incorporate biophilic design elements such as a nature-inspired palette, natural materials such as stone and wood, textiles, and wallcoverings that incorporate biophilic imagery can contribute to creating mindful, supportive spaces within our home. Biophilic design draws from our innate desire to be within nature, aiming to mirror the mindful effects of spending time outdoors to help us find moments of calm and peace. Remodeling and reclaiming our home after experiencing a loss is a sensitive process that must be handled with care and compassion. We have planned home remodels after a sudden loss, illness, or accident and supported individuals through the difficult task of sorting through a loved one's treasured possessions with sensitivity, discretion, and empathy. Reclaiming our space after a painful event can be a healing part of the grieving process; with an experienced interior design team at our side for guidance and support, we can honor our memories while charting a new path for our lives.

Sarah Barnard, WELL AP + LEED AP, is a leading designer of personalized, sustainable spaces that support mental, physical, and emotional wellbeing. She creates highly personalized, restorative spaces that are deeply connected to art and the preservation of the environment. An advocate for consciousness, inclusivity, and compassion in the creative process, Sarah has appeared in Architectural Digest, Elle Décor, Vogue, HGTV, and many other publications. In 2017 Sarah was honored as a “Ones to Watch” Scholar by the American Society of Interior Designers (ASID).

References

1. “The 4 Tasks of Grieving.” Psychology Today, Sussex Publishers,www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mental-health-nerd/201911/the-4-tasks-grieving. Accessed 17 Dec. 2024.

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Verdugo Mountains Retreat: A Nature Inspired Home among the Trees

The Verdugo Mountains are a unique natural environment in Los Angeles County, California. This mountain range, surrounded by urban development, is an isolated pocket of nature with abundant trees, flowering plants, and wildlife. Sarah Barnard Design recently transformed a ranch-style home in this beautiful, serene wilderness.

The garden surrounding this home was generously planted to provide beauty and sanctuary for pollinators and local wildlife, such as lizards, raccoons, foxes, coyotes, deer, and many birds who are regular visitors. This outdoor space is progressively rewilding with California native plants alongside beautiful ornamental plants that hold personal meaning to the household and grow well in this region. This green space blends the built environment of the home with its stunning natural surroundings, fostering an ecosystem that cultivates joy and mindfulness into daily life through simple acts such as coexisting with birds in the garden.

The beauty of the landscape inspired many biophilic design elements within the home, which was updated to reflect a connection between the indoor and outdoor environment.

The living room features large windows that look out onto a collection of succulents and cacti, with a beautiful view of the (sometimes snowcapped) mountains.

The living room furniture combines modern and antique pieces, including a restored antique armchair, reupholstered with a deep green linen velvet, whose luxurious and varied texture lends itself to the age of the chair while connecting with the lush greenery outside. A custom-made ottoman seamlessly compliments the armchair's antique quality. Integrating vintage and restored antique pieces within this home allowed the design team to incorporate sustainable practices in the design process while infusing spaces with pieces that held personal meaning through historical connections.

This unique wooden coffee table was made by splitting an unmilled log of English walnut into two parts. Its live edge retains the organic form of the tree from which it was made. The entire surface is textured with chisel marks that poetically incorporate the process of hand-working the wood into its final aesthetic. The shape, material, and process in which this coffee table was made make a connection with the surrounding woodlands, bringing the tranquility of forest bathing into this living room.

The living room flooring, which continues throughout this home, is made from porcelain tile that has the appearance of White Oak wood. This tile creates a harmonious connection with the surrounding woodlands while providing an excellent eco-friendly alternative to wood, as porcelain is a low-impact, enduring material that is easy to clean and maintain.

A hazy, calming landscape painting by Peter Burega hangs over the living room sofa. The muted earth tones of grey, brown, and olive green resonate with the deep green of the antique velvet armchair.

A large, wool, flatweave area rug demarcates a soft space for the sofa and coffee table within the living room. This rug features a minimal brown geometric pattern on a natural beige background, combining a nature-inspired palette to bring aspects of the outside landscape into this built environment.

The brick fireplace was painted white, integrating it into the light and airy feel of the room. A rustic hearth surface was created in plaster, reminiscent of the organic patterns in the dry earth of a desert landscape. A 1970s vase from West Germany coated in a bronze-like glaze and layered with grey fat lava rests on the hearth, providing a harmonious link with the brown and white palette of the area rug. Its uneven surface and the organic application of the glaze give it a unique handmade quality.

A pair of contemporary marigold yellow armchairs with custom arch-shaped ottomans create an area of warmth that brings out the earthy-toned highlights throughout the room. These ottomans blend components of the natural and the contemporary world through their round organic form and furry boucle-like texture, which creates a cozy sensory experience. The triangular side table is part of a nesting set and features an orchid resting in a soda fired tumbler by Heather Cornelius.

A German-designed, hand-blown, smokey taupe glass table lamp sits on top of a mid-century-inspired console table made in collaboration with a skilled woodworker. This lamp's organic form was shaped by merging two glass spheres and retains the malleable feeling of molten glass to create soft, diffused lighting within the space. A large Kale tree (Polyscias Guilfoylei) in the corner of the room is one of many indoor plants in this home that create a lush connection with the serenity of nature.

The dining area features a restored mahogany dining table that has been in the family for generations. This antique table features a central column base with claw feet and Queen Ann dining chairs with a ball and claw feet. A Scandanavian-inspired chandelier hangs over the dining room table; its minimalist style draws attention to low-wattage antique filament bulbs as a visible design feature that creates soft, warm lighting. A yellow ceramic mid-century modern dish creates a pop of color in the center of the dining table, while a fiddle leaf fig and monstera plant create green space on either side of the dining area.

The existing kitchen was transformed by painting the cabinets a deep black green and replacing the hardware with brushed antique brass round knobs to create a contemporary woodland feel.

The nature-inspired color palette also highlights the beautiful green tones within the quartzite backsplash and countertops. Luxury upgrades such as a touchless faucet and an instant hot water dispenser create a sense of comfort and ease that encourage convenience and joy in the simple pleasures of cooking a meal or enjoying an instant cup of tea.

The scenic mountain views from the living room windows inspired Sarah to create a one-of-a-kind mosaic design for the entryway floor. This elaborate hand-pieced design originated as a sketch by Sarah, which she then translated into a series of templates for the intricate angled strips of wood-like porcelain tiles. These were then arranged to form mountainous shapes inspired by the hillside views from the property.

The entryway features an Italian-designed hand-blown pendant light made from two glass spheres, one clear and one blue-green, that rest on one another to resemble a dew drop collecting on a drop of water. The transparent organic form undulates downward, emanating white light from below and a soothing blue-green glow from above.

Artwork by Renae Barnard makes textural reference to organic forms within nature by building up the material surface of the painting to resemble cracked earth or moss. This work is installed above an artisan-made bench, crafted using the traditional Japanese process called shou sugi ban, in which wood is finished by charring, washing, and applying natural oils.

The vintage hall tree features a collection of nature-inspired objects such as a pink glass antique vase with floral motifs, a Japanese bronze lilypad dish from the 1940s, and an antique ink well shaped like an owl.

The trim throughout the home's public rooms is painted the same deep black green as the kitchen cabinets, carrying this soothing tone throughout the home.

The hallway walls, closets, and ceiling are painted in the same deep black green dispersed throughout the cabinetry and doorways of the house. This immersive use of color is intended to create a sensory shift as one moves from the white, light-filled living room to the quiet sanctuary of the primary bedroom. The molten glass shape of the ceiling light fixture emits a golden meteoric glow that reflects across the dark walls of the space. A runner made from hand-knotted wool creates a soft detail underfoot, dampening noise from footfall to create a peaceful connection with home areas designed for rest and rejuvenation.

This light and airy home office looks out onto the lush green backyard with a view of Oak, Pepper, and Acacia trees outside. The walls are painted in Gardenia, a warm off-white with a slight peach undertone.

The subtle warmth of this color is accentuated by a dusty pink paint color used to highlight the baseboards, door frames, and window casing. This joyous pop of color connects with the Dhalias, Calliandra Eriophylla, and Hibiscus located in the surrounding garden.

This space was designed with multiple ceiling light options to provide ample and adaptable working light regardless of changes in furniture arrangement.

The bi-level walnut tambour door desk, Danish-designed grey leather chair, and Danish-designed secretary desk made from Rosewood are all 1960s midcentury pieces. The secretary desk includes a countertop that can be extended to create more workspace. A wall-based sculptural work by artist Renae Barnard connects the built and natural environment by constructing an abstract nest-like form out of found materials tied together with yarn and twine and then concealed within layers of paint.

A globe floor lamp positioned next to a large worktable provides a contemporary redesign of the mid-century modern aesthetic. The table and harp-backed chair are cherished vintage items that have been in the household for years.

A potted variegated Abutilon and a hanging Pathos plant bring in the lush greenery of the surrounding garden to create pockets of tranquility within the workspace. The hanging baskets outside the office windows create a joyous break from work to watch birds nesting and hummingbirds drinking from the Fuchsia flowers.

The design team incorporated butterfly stickers onto windows throughout the house to minimize bird strikes or collisions, supporting local birdlife and creating a space to enjoy birdwatching.

The home gym features organic linen curtains that frame windows looking out on the serene woodland.

The custom meditation pillow is made from the Kale Tree Matilija Poppy textile in Midnight, bringing this beautiful California native wildflower indoors in a palette harmonious with the home gym door. Elegant hardware is incorporated throughout the house in flat black with crystal disc knobs.

A mid-century-inspired wall sconce sits above a vintage burl root mirror shaped like the hollow of a tree.

The existing cabinets were updated with deep black green paint and round brass hardware with black U-shaped pulls.

The existing vanity was repurposed by painting it charcoal gray and installing new artisan-made hardware. The pewter finish of the leaf-shaped hardware creates a subtle nature reference. An Andy Warhol print of a green cat creates a pop of color in the room.

White linen curtains frame the bathroom window, and a pollinator house is installed outside. A pollinator house consists of a series of bamboo tubes designed to create a habitat for bees and insects, helping to support a biodiverse pollinator population within the household garden and the surrounding natural environment.

The primary bedroom color scheme combines Gardenia walls with deep black-green trim to create a nature-inspired retreat that connects with the serene surrounding environment. The dusty rose tones of the linen bedding, cotton blanket, and wool curtains draw from flowers in the lush garden outside, such as the California Wildrose, to create a cozy, inviting environment that resonates with the warmth of wood furniture throughout the room.

The grey upholstered bed and floor rug made from wool and jute help ground this colorful bedroom palette within soft, earthy tones. A cloud-like glass light fixture fills the room with soft, diffused lighting, and a pair of pink Roly Poly chairs can be seen in the garden through the glass sliding doors, creating a playful color connection between the inside and outside.

The natural beauty of woodgrain is featured in the live edge artisan-made walnut stool and the antique European Art Deco dresser, which incorporates a stunning decorative pattern created by mirroring woodgrain. A painting by Denes de Holesch depicts two frolicking horses.

A midcentury dresser and a French Directoire nightstand continue to carry warm tones throughout the room, connecting with the beauty of the trees outside. A vintage ceramic lamp in the shape of a partridge introduces a playful nature reference through its folk-like stylized form.

Custom pillow shams made from the Kale Tree Matilija Poppy Textile - Natural create a harmonious blend between the pink bed linens and Gardenia surrounding walls while incorporating the beauty of CA native wildflowers into the space.

Living within the beauty of nature brings joy and serenity into our everyday life. Incorporating elements of the surrounding environment into our home through biophilic design extends the mindful experience we encounter outdoors into our everyday living space, immersing us in restorative healing spaces.